Showing posts with label Valentine. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Valentine. Show all posts

Tuesday, 12 February 2013

My #LoveBites Anti♥Valentine Blog Hop Story

A Guide to Dating for the Clueless

 

Derek believed his talents were wasted as a postman; he would have made an excellent detective.

Birthday cards, bills and bank statements all passed through his hands, clues to the lives lived behind the letterboxes.

Crystal at number 26 was a popular girl usually receiving lots of letters but her post box was distinctly empty on Valentine’s Day. 

To investigate he followed her discretely to the bus stop watching her cry for a bit before approaching.

She declined the screwed up handkerchief he offered but smiled so politely he took a chance and asked her on a date.

He was sure he hadn’t accidently spat on her, it was a mild affliction he suffered with, although he remembered salivating when she accepted.

The local cinema was showing his favourite film, Psycho. When she said she’d never seen this classic he took this as a cue to educate her and waxed lyrically about the beautifully portrayed mother son relationship.

He couldn’t comprehend why she hid her face behind her manicured fingers for so much of the film. She completely missed all the best bits.

When the film finished he insisted on driving her home, a gentlemanly gesture saving her from catching the last bus home.

But she practically opened the car door before he even stopped and he was a little perplexed why she shunned his advances for a goodnight kiss.

He couldn’t quite figure out what had gone wrong with the evening.

There must be some clue he had overlooked.


Saturday, 9 February 2013

LOVE BITES: An Anti♥Valentine Blog Hop


Now I like to think I can get on with most people but I’m afraid to say that me and St Valentine have never really seen eye to eye. He’s certainly never done me any favours.

I sent my first handmade Valentine’s cards (yes that's plural!) aged five. I distinctly remember writing my declarations of love with the purple and green pens from my spirograph set.

Alas my love was not reciprocated!

Aged 14 I bought a card for the princely sum of £1, I cycled to my true love’s house to personally deliver it – hoping to catch a glimpse of the blonde haired wonder.

But I was scorned once more.

At the age of twenty I finally received a card from the person I least wanted one from!

Then by the age of twenty four I had found my soulmate and he probably sent me two cards before we married and none after!

Flowers, he told me, are a depreciating asset, always bound to die!

SIGH!

As they say the path of true love never runs smooth – so I was delighted when the amazing Ruth Long a.k.a Lady Bullish created a group called the Inklingettes, Lisa, Laura, Angela, Afsanah, Elizabeth and me (click on each name to find some superb blogs!)

Then it was announced we were hosting an anti-Valentine Blog Hop.
Ruth, such a great wordsmith, explains it so much better than me, so I am stealing all her words…

This Valentine’s Day, we invite you to join us in thumbing our noses at Cupid, Love and the Whole Schmaltzy Holiday!!
Introducing …

 
LOVE BITES: An AntiValentine Blog Hop

Hostesses: The Inklingettes
Theme: Love Run Amuk, Aground or Otherwise Off Course
Schedule: Friday, February 8 through Thursday, February 14
Word Count: 250 Words
Incentive: Community spirit, inky fun and lots of laughs!

Further Incentive: Prizes! (Judging Details TBA) 
* 6 Broken-hearted bookmarks made by the Divine Hammer
* A one-of-a-kind painting personalized with a quote from the winners piece donated by Lee Clements
*A one hour coaching session by Rebecca T Dickson


How To Participate:

* Write a cheeky anti-valentine story of 250 words or less.
* Post it on your blog. (If you don’t have a blog, contact any of the hostesses and space will be magically provided).
* Add your post url to the linky at the bottom of this page.
* Copy the blog badge from this page and paste them into your post.
* Bop around the interwebz to read and comment on the other entries.
* Pimp out the hop and entries on Facebook, G+, Twitter and anywhere else your heart desires!
* Don’t Forget: HAVE FUN!
Got Questions? Contact any of the hostesses and they’ll be happy to help!


I urge you to enter, to pour out your misgivings of this most cheesy of days, to set cupid’s arrow soaring in the most unlikely of directions  and most of all have a lot of fun and make us laugh. So when February 14th rolls around the fact that there are no cards on the doormat is neither here nor there…

OK I'm off now to stir some rose petals into my own cauldron of doom and see what inky mischief I can conjure up!

Tuesday, 14 February 2012

Happy Tuesday


I once heard a poem all about why February is rubbish! It is a cold month with winter hanging on and the only date in the calendar of any significance is Waitangi Day which is celebrated in New Zealand on the 6th.

Oh yes and that other memorable date St Valentine’s Day!

One week after my birthday and most years best forgotten. Oh how I agree with the author of the poem!

Well sometimes I do.   

It is hard to get excited about a day that is only celebrated by couples when you are well and truly SINGLE.

I can just about count all my Valentine’s cards sent and received on one hand…

When I was five I sent two handmade cards to boys in my class. I still remember writing them in coloured biros from my spirograph set.

Ten years later I was at it again as I delivered a card to a tall, blond haired, blue eyed boy also in my class. I especially cycled to his house and sneakily dropped the rather large card through the letter box without being seen. It was a Saturday and I expected to see him the next day at church.

“He’s not avoiding you,” His mother said to me after the service. “He’s just out with the scouts.”

So much for it being a secret, EVERYONE knew!

I don’t think I actually received a Valentine's card until I was away at Polytechnic. One was silently slipped under my bedroom door in the halls of residence. I was quite excited – until I found out who had sent it!

Then there were the cards Andrew and I sent to one another. For the purpose of this post and to fit in with my statement above we will count them as one. In reality I may have sent two or three and he probably gave me one or two, but I couldn’t find any when I looked for them earlier so maybe I dreamt them after all.

But despite the lack of cards on my doormat I remain an utterly hopeless romantic.

My mother-in-law goes to a luncheon club on a Tuesday and there is one particular man she is fond of having a weekly cuddle from.

“You should leave him a Valentine’s card on his table.” I encouraged her. 

She dismissed the idea but why should the older generation not have a bit of romance in their lives?

Meanwhile at the other end of the scale I took the boys to the cinema today to see The Muppets. I also took along my friend’s children as she was working.

I am a cruel woman always teasing my youngest son and my friend’s daughter, they make a great team and I would love her to be my daughter-in-law one day. We engineered them sitting next to each other and then this afternoon they spent time doing a jigsaw together – awww young love – so sweet!

If I can’t have any romance in my own life I shall have to look elsewhere.

And if I can’t play cupid for the older or younger generations I will turn my attention to the silver screen and look for inspiration in the great love story I watched today – that of Kermit and Miss Piggy, once more happily in each other’s arms.




Happy Tuesday Everyone 
with lots of love xxx